Phil & I found out today that we are expecting our first child. I know, I know...you're probably saying, "It's about time!" (We have been married for almost 8 years). For my own sake, I'd like to start at the beginning, so that I will have it to remember.
Last summer the entire family (10 adults and 8 kids) went to Charleston, SC for a week. We all stayed together in a house and although we each had our own room, it was crazy, to say the least! We had a BLAST, and Aunt Mare and Uncle Phil wore themselves out with all the kiddos that week. On our drive home from Charleston, Phil kept talking about what a great time we had and how thankful he was to have such a great family that enjoyed spending time together (to which I completely agreed!). Later that day, Phil said to me, "I think we're ready." My response was, "Are you serious? Most guys who just spent a week with 8 kids (none of which belong to him) would probably have the complete opposite feelings right now!" Needless to say, we decided it was time to try:)
I have to say that even though my sisters and sister-in-law seemed to be popping babies out left and right, I never once was jealous or upset that I wasn't the one who was pregnant. I am so thankful that the Lord allowed me to be absolutely happy for them and that He waited until the time was right for me and Phil before he gave me that burning desire to have a child of my own.
